You’re probably familiar with the phrase: “The rich get richer.” But have you ever wondered why? I did.
I wanted to understand why it felt so impossible for me to acquire massive wealth, so I spent 12 years studying close to 153 multimillionaires and middle class individuals.
I discovered that the super wealthy have a different set of beliefs, philosophies and strategies than those who identify as “middle class.” Their secret to getting rich wasn’t in the mechanics of money; rather, it was their values and level of thinking that generated it.
In other words, to be a rich person, you have to think like a rich person. Once I learned to embrace this concept, the money started to flow; I started my own business.
Here are some of the most common middle class beliefs that may be holding you back from your earning potential:
1. ‘Working hard—even at a job I hate—will make me rich.’
Most people commit to jobs they consider “tolerable” — and they stick with it for years while simultaneously worrying about getting fired or dreaming of the day they finally get to retire. Why? Because they believe it’s the most effective way to get rich.
As Hadas Weiss, an anthropologist at the Madrid Institute for Advanced Study, argues in her book “We Have Never Been Middle Class: How Social Mobility Misleads Us”: ”The ideologies of the middle class seem inextricably linked to meritocracy — that our hard work gets us where we are; and then, where we are must be protected to ensure that our value remains.”
The ultra wealthy, on the other hand, believe in working for fulfillment. Once they find a job they love, they invest their heart and soul into it — so much, in fact, that they become one of the best in their field and are rewarded with uncommon wealth.
Change your mindset: It’s possible to do what you love and get super wealthy doing it. Find a rich and successful person who is passionate about their job. Ask them how they got there. Get inspired.
Middle class individuals believe that their investments in formal education determines their wealth. But if the secret to building wealth was excellent grades, then every summa cum laude graduate would be a multimillionaire.
The mass affluent know that financial success has little to do with your ability to memorize textbook information. Instead, they believe that gaining specific knowledge about things like how to invest or network with powerful people have a stronger impact on their net worth.
In fact, some of the world’s top billionaires have little formal education. Dell Technologies CEO Michael Dell — worth an estimated $32 billion, according to Forbes — dropped out of the University of Texas at Austin his freshman year when he was 19. And Apple co-founder Steve Jobs once said that dropping out of Reed College was “one of the best decisions” he ever made.
Change your mindset: Formal education does not guarantee success or wealth. If you love sales, for example, take an online course that will strengthen your skills in that field. Bill Gates has credited much of his success to reading 50 books a year. Ask a money expert to teach you about investing in stocks.
The average person believes being rich is a privilege awarded only to a few “lucky” people. Weiss puts it perfectly in her interview with Fatherly.com: ”Most people who identify as middle class believe that whatever cards they’re dealt with, their efforts and investments in education, professional skills, homeownership” determines how much money they have.
“If they end up doing well, they trace their good fortune to those investments,” she continued. “If they don’t, they blame themselves for having invested poorly or insufficiently. It’s also how they judge other people’s situations.”
Meanwhile, the ultra wealthy know that in a capitalist country, they have the right to be rich if they’re willing to create massive value for others. They ask, “If I serve others by solving problems, why shouldn’t I get fortune in return?” And since they have that belief, their behavior moves them toward the manifestation of their dreams.
Change your mindset: Instead of focusing on how you can save more money on groceries and bills this month, brainstorm new ideas that have the potential to fix a common problem.
Contrary to popular belief, money can be a force for good. Based on my interviews, the majority of the middle class have a set of beliefs and philosophies that suggest success and money turns people into greedy, corrupt and uncaring oppressors.
But rich champions know that any kind of power, freedom or liberation reveals a person’s true self. If you were a crook or a cheater before you got wealthy, for example, you’ll probably be even worse once you do get rich. If you were honest, humble and hard-working before, you may become an even better person with expanded financial resources.
Change your mindset: If you always strive to be a kinder and more giving person, money will likely strengthen your good morals and characteristics.
Middle class people tend to operate with a scarcity mindset: They believe there will never be enough of something. As a result, they’re extremely conservative with their finances; they fear that if they lose money, they won’t be able to make it back.
The rich get richer by using their money to make even more money — without much additional effort. They factor in the risks involved in this strategy, knowing that while gains can be sudden and staggering, there will also be losses along the way.
The multimillionaires of the world are constantly studying their investments —both the good and the bad. They know that the more experienced they become, the smarter they’ll get, and the easier it’ll be for them to replace money lost in high risk deals.
Change your mindset: Increase your tolerance for taking risks by betting on yourself in the undertaking of a new venture, investment or partnership. If you learn to trust your judgement, your confidence will grow.
Solely focusing on saving money is the secret downfall of the masses. It’s not that saving is bad, but it’s the level of consciousness that it originates from that makes it dangerous.
According to a 2018 T. Rowe Price survey of more than 1,000 young adults (ages 18 to 24), 30% said that it wasn’t until after they turned 15 that their parents taught them about money. And of that group, 82% said they mostly learned about how to save and be frugal.
Ultra wealthy individuals are always looking for ways to double or triple their income so they can enjoy the “good life.” Then, they invest the remainder of their money in things like stocks, bonds and real estate.
The rich people I interviewed see money as a dynamic medium of exchange for goods and services that should circulate and grow — and they pass that point of view on to their kids by teaching them to invest their pennies.
Change your mindset: Saving is important. But set an example for your kids by emphasizing the importance of knowing how to grow your money, too. Show them that investing can be fun, and that it’s okay to spend their earnings on things that make them happy. You only live once, right?
Most people never accumulate massive wealth because they see money through the eyes of negative emotions. By the time the average person becomes an adult, they’ve been brainwashed into believing that just talking about finances leads to stress and anxiety — so they try to avoid the topic as much as possible.
The wealthiest people, however, see money for what it is and for what it isn’t — through the eyes of logic. To them, it’s simply a tool that presents options and opportunities. When it comes to strategizing how to make more money, they put their emotions aside and let reason be their guide.
As the Irish writer Jonathan Swift once said, “A wise man should have money in his head, not in his heart.”
Change your mindset: Use your logic to dictate your financial strategy, and use your emotions to motivate yourself to stick to it.
After several decades of sifting through surveys, interview transcripts and studies, I’ve found that, more than anything else, physical, psychological and emotional comfort is the primary goal of the middle class.
But financially successful individuals learn early on that striking it rich isn’t easy, and that the need for comfort can be devastating. They learn to be comfortable while operating in a state of ongoing uncertainty. “There’s a price to pay for getting rich, but if I have the mental toughness to endure the temporary pain, I can reap the harvest of great wealth,” one millionaire told me.
Meanwhile, the masses go out of their way to avoid doing things they don’t like, which in the early stages of building wealth is where the most opportunities lie. Rich people, however, are optimistic and daring.
Change your mindset: Achieving massive goals is never a walk in the park. Those who push forward get rewarded. Consider making a list of five things you must do today that may be uncomfortable, but will get you a few steps closer to great wealth.